I have two friends, 1 recently went back to vietnam and probably already engaged. The other friend is in Vietnam as of this moment, in fact he just message me in facebook chat that he’s in Dai De hotel in HCM city formerly known as Saigon city. The first friend just came back and ask for my opinion on marrying a girl in Vietnam, she’s an accounting, I told him, the success rate of bring the girl in the US is high, the success rate in staying with that girl for more than 3-4 years are low, normally they get the green card or even us citizenship then start to cause trouble and sometime in control of you because she got smarter – However there are also cases where the husband in control of the girl and even don’t provide her freedom to drive a car, go to school, or even have friend – Yes it does happens to many vietnamese girl from Vietnam. For the 2nd friend arrived in Vietnam yesterday stayed at Dai De hotel in Saigon HCMC in Vietnam, he’d been nervous about it, which I think is normal, even in the US, when I got married I was nervous, the nervousness tied to excitement – In just a few days another person come into your life and be part of your life hopefully forever :).